I just saw a video that, I think, was supposed to make me call my mom or dad or both and reconcile. The whole, you only get one __parent__ spiel. I'm not with it. The problem with what we've been taught about parents and, really, family in general is that we've been conditioned to see... Continue Reading →
I don't believe that timing is everything. I believe that timelines are everything. Everyone has a fluid life timeline into which life experiences are recorded, and each experience comes with a processing time. I think that the thing to understand is that experiences are spontaneous but processing time is concrete. So what I'm saying to... Continue Reading →
I bleached my colors for him. In the mirror, I stared my life's mural in the eye and began painting over it - a stark white. I made myself a blank canvas, and still he complained, because in some places my colors peeked through. I tried to tame my vibrant reds, to reduce the bottomless... Continue Reading →
I told my friend that I want to get better with conversation. That I specialize in profound statements, not profound interactions. That I go out of my way to avoid things that create the desire or need for a stimulating back and forth, because there are too many unknown variables in conversation. He said: he... Continue Reading →
I'm a little skeptical about sharing my words now, since someone took my post ... scratched my name out ... and went viral off of it. So, sometimes - if I'm really really protective over the post - I'll do a video (below). https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10154331147246372&id=508671371
When I need to think, I go sit on the nearest toilet. I wont even use it. I just sit there for long periods. Until now, I've been able to contain this in my home. Right now...I've been in this bathroom stall for 9 minutes and counting. This is the start of something terrible lol.
Finding your purpose changes the game. - Nique Natural 🙂
FB Question: "What do you do if you see an acquaintance from high school's husband on Tinder?" Ask me a question via Messenger or by using my Contact Form This question is awkward. Like, it makes me feel awkward inside. And it's the type of awkward that you don't recover gracefully from. Like, after you... Continue Reading →